Do You Suffer In The Doom Loop?
So many people never get to enjoy their success, their magnificence.
Why?
Because an Inner Gremlin that’s addicted to The Doom Loop gets terrified every time you stand out and receive the spot light.
Why? Because The Doom Loop knows that its days may be numbered and the only way to stay alive is to drag you back down into disappointment and gloom.
Know the feeling?
You looked forward to giving that training for your department team. You worked hard on it - it was even fun to do.
And then you really grabbed the spotlight with all your smarts and humor mixed together.
You were really, really fabulous!
Everyone said so.
But, driving home after work you felt miserable. All you could think about was the left over cake (alllll of it), or getting tanked, or crashing as soon as you walked in the door.
Why? Because The Doom Loop, your unconscious addiction to keeping yourself caught in The Fear of Being Fabulous - is running the show. Not you.
That’s the issue that comes up over and over with our coaching clients — and most coaches haven’t a clue how to work with it. But it’s our specialty.
Working with a client on Overcoming The Fear of Being Fabulous is one of our most rewarding and fun pursuits - because we really, really know this stuff!
That’s why we created our 12-CD program “Overcoming the Fear of Being Fabulous” http://overcomingthefearofbeingfabulous.com
April 30th, 2010 at 1:45 am
I think your gremlin and its doom loop shares parentage with what Seth Godin, in Linchpin, calls “the lizard brain.” It’s our oldest brain survival mechanism designed to keep us “safe” by keeping us invisible.
And Overcoming the Fear of Being Fabulous is a great antidote to the lizard/gremlin brain.
Thanks!
Bobbye Middendorf
The Write Synergies Guru