Judith & Jim
Mastery Level Coaching, Books and Programs to Help You Grow

NEW LIFE, NEW LOVE

A few years ago we moved to a tiny mountain town, out in the country of upstate New York from Santa Monica, CA — to live in a 200-year old farm house on 2 acres with a pond. This move has opened us in so many ways — ways we could never have predicted. But...

CONFLICTS CAN BE ROMANTIC?

Romantic conflicts are as common as . . . Chores, Money, Sex, In-laws, Holidays, Feeling Ignored, Vacations, Disciplining the Children, Enough Time Together, Lack of Listening, Dirty Fighting, The “Right Way” to Do Things, “You Just Don’t Get...

MAKE YOUR WEDDING TRULY MEMORABLE

We know you want your gown to be gorgeous, your flowers beautiful, and your party joyous, and they will be. But will your guests — will you — remember those things several weeks later? As disappointing as this may seem, that’s not what people will be talking...

LOVE AND PREJUDICE

Much of what you learned about love and intimacy may no longer work. Conventional ideas of relationship and marriage don‘t leave much room for who two people are as individuals. Centuries-old gender stereotypes have forced men and women to play out predetermined...

ASKING

No matter how much two people have in common, they will always be different in many ways. And that can be challenging. Do you feel you can speak up about issues that bug you, hurt you, scare you when your partner behaves in ways you don’t like? Or are you afraid...